Someone to Listen and Hold Their Hand

As I visited with the residents at my Dads home, I noticed something new. I’ve mentioned before how people would respond more often when I called them by name. But today, I realized how they responded to touch.

As I approached one sweet lady, I laid my hand gently upon her shoulder and said “Good Morning.” She immediately reached up and held onto my hand. It was almost like a lifeline for her.

As we visited, she continued to gently hold my hand.

This is not the first time I noticed this response. Some want a hug, usually they just want a touch.

I realized most of their interactions are with medical personnel. I’m not saying these workers don’t care, but they are busy assessing their medical needs.

Sometimes, they just want someone to hold their hand, and share a moment with them.

One lady would take my hand and place it on her cheek, and then say, “Bless you!”

Another resident gave me the biggest bear hug and said,”You make my day!”

I think people were made to need touch.

Studies show that human touch can reduce stress, improve mood, and even boost the immune system.

In the Bible, Jesus freely and frequently used physical touch to love and heal others.

He washed feet in John 13:12-15.

In Mark 10:13, he gathered children in His arms.

I try to be more aware of not only encouraging others with words, but when appropriate, with a hug or touch.

I mean don’t we all have times when a hug from a friend, or a family member lifts our spirits? It can help you feel you aren’t alone.

I think that’s why some of the people I visited, respond to a shoulder squeeze, a hand held, or a hug. I’ve learned a lot visiting the elderly residents at my Dads home. A reminder of how much we all need a touch.

Lets be aware of those around us, that just might need a hug today.

Blessings!